Your child doesn't have to be a mystery
In about 30 seconds you can find out how your child wants to be loved, what they need from you, what sets them off, and why the same thing works on one of your kids and not the other.
My approach
Understanding your child changes everything
Every child is born with their own nature and their own set of needs, and those needs have to be met before a child feels settled. When they are not, it comes out as behavior. So I never start with the behavior. I start with what your child is asking for.
How it works
It starts with your child's birthday
Your child's date of birth gives us their chart, and every number on it stands for something they need in order to feel settled. One child needs predictability and order, another needs to feel like they are needed, another needs to be seen and acknowledged. It is a little like love languages, except you are not guessing, and your child carries several at once.
Give it a try!
See your child's chart
Hi, I'm Ian
Hey, I'm Ian. You probably got here from one of my videos, or a friend sent you something with "this is so your kid" attached. However you landed here, I'm really glad you did.
Have a look around. The free guide is the quickest way to see what this is, the courses go deeper, and my story is the reason any of it exists. Start wherever you like.
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I wrote Understand Your Child in 30 Seconds for the parent who has read all the advice and still feels like none of it was written about her own child. There is a page for every number, and all it takes to get started is a birthday.
